Amazing Tips To Roleplay With a Girl Over Text

When people think about the start of a new relationship, they often think of the “butterflies in your stomach” moments that await all of the “firsts” you’re sure to encounter. Falling in love is fun, after all, and relationships can be easy and playful in the beginning. But what many of these people fail to take into account is just how much work is involved in getting enough of someone’s attention to bring the relationship to that point. If you’re never sparking interest, it’s a bit difficult to capture the excitement and begin to build a real, in-depth and intimate relationship. If you find yourself stuck in the position of trying to get someone’s attention indefinitely, don’t worry – this article is for you. Let’s look at how you can learn to roleplay via text with the best of them! 

What is role play? 

As the name suggests, role play is the act of playing a role. There are many different ways for this to translate into text. Some people find that actually tossing their text partner a role to latch onto while texting can capture their interest and give them away “in” to their affections. When you do this, you’re essentially giving the girl you’re talking to a low-stakes away to be imaginative and consider what kind of interactions they see themselves having with you. It’s a great option when you’re just starting to get to know someone, too, as it doesn’t require much knowledge about them specifically. It is, by definition, a conversation about a “role” they’re playing. 

In addition to everything discussed above, role play gives you the chance to get to know someone’s imagination and creative leanings a bit better while also adapting to their responses and creating a fun narrative. Just make sure you’re prepared to adapt to their responses on the fly and aren’t stuck in “autopilot” mode with your responses or the plot of the play. 

Here are some tips to help you pick the best role play possible to catch a girl’s attention (and affection) via text. 

1. Break Her Expectations

If you’re chatting with a girl and hoping to interest her enough to agree to a date or meetup later, you want to stand out from the crowd. This is especially vital if you’re chatting through a meetup app or website. Girls on these platforms probably receive dozens of messages a day all saying the same thing, so you have your work cut out for you when it comes to trying something unique. 

One great way to subvert expectations and disarm a girl is to start a role play. It doesn’t even have to be a necessarily interesting one – something that’s out of the ordinary will usually suffice. After all, you can always perfect the plot as you go. Instead of asking the same old “getting to know you” questions, then, why not consider sending the girl in question a text message that introduces a conflict in your plans. You don’t have plans with her? That’s perfect because you’re not texting the girl from a dating app where – you’re texting your wife or adventure in crime about the next great heist you have planned! 

2. Have Fun

Don’t be afraid to create a silly situation. Role-playing isn’t meant to be serious and overly dramatic. On the contrary, it’s perfect for a light-hearted banter that allows both parties to laugh and daydream a bit. With that in mind, toss humor in the messages liberally and be descriptive! Your ability to paint a scene will be vital in selling the role play, so make sure that you’re ready to go and have something loosely planned when you send that first text. 

3. Roll with the Punches

It’s important to have something planned, as mentioned above, but it’s equally important to be able to roll with the punches. Did your roleplay partner send you something outlandish in a response that throws a wrench into your original idea? It’s time for Plan B! Don’t panic if you’re not sure what is, either. Just play along – much the same way you expected her to play along – and see where the tale takes you. Remember, you're having fun here, not creating a literary masterpiece. 

4. Kick Up the Heat

If you’re getting along particularly well or are texting with someone you already know a bit, consider adding some spice to your texts. Making a girl wet through sexting might seem difficult but remember that women are imaginative and creative by design. All you have to do is add a bit of intrigue and suggestion to your texts, and they’ll usually run with that and take it from there. You don’t even have to be blatant, although you certainly can if you know the girl you’re texting is into that. You can say suggestive, but vague, things alluding to the fun you’ll both have later or the things you have planned for them later that night. It doesn’t matter whether you already have plans with them or not – the suggestion alone is sometimes enough to secure a meetup even without prior planning. 

5. Be Confident 

Finally, don’t waste this opportunity by being timid. Build a story and draw her in! You can’t second guess every move you make here because you really want to project an image of confidence and humor, not one of concern and worry. Be bold (but not rude) and keep the text exchange going. 

Are you ready to take your conversations to the next level by role-playing with a girl via texts? You’re in the right place! Take a look at the tips above and think about how you can use them to create the perfect role-play opportunity. Don’t be afraid to adopt rules and suggestions on the fly, either, if you sense that the girl in question might enjoy moving things in another direction. The most important point here is to have fun and create a scenario where both of you are able to enjoy yourselves and be creative.    ***