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Alex Wise
by on August 15, 2017
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No change in spouse cheating

The world of the cheating spouse will never change, no matter how the world evolves and changes with the times. Their behavioral patterns are as easy as pie to identify, most probably because it is so terribly predictable. A cheaters of 200 years ago if compared to one today will be like two peas in a pot. These very dumb creatures are super easy to identify in ultimate ways how to tell if a spouse is cheating.

Intercourse

Pay attention to even the slightest of change in sexual patterns or behavior. Sexual requests getting kinkier or sex generally increasing or significantly decreasing should be closely investigated. These changes can be caused by fatigue or an over-active sex life with someone other than you. A guilty conscious can be another cause.

Changes in grooming and appearance

Keep a close eye on changes to the spouse’s appearance and grooming patterns. He or she may bath or shower more often to either get rid of the smell of sex or to get ready for a meeting with the guy or gal. New and sexy outfits are invested in, on a regular basis.

Physical giveaways

Some physical giveaways will even get a blind person thinking. Look-out for lipstick smears on collars or even underwear, the smell of unknown perfume or aftershave on the spouses clothes or car and condoms in the wallet, handbag or cubby hole. Chances are, if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck is probably is a duck. Physical evidence should be the last nail in your spouses cheating coffin.

Living in denial

Steer clear from denial or blame, there is absolutely nothing you have done to justify your spouses’ behavior. By living in denial you will just get more hurt by and fall deeper into the situation, this can only be to your detriment. The sooner you tackle the problem head-on, the better your chances of walking out on the other side a much stronger and better person. Separation is the recommended solution instead of trying to patch-up the cracks in the broken relationship. The secret does not only lie in how to tell if a spouse is cheating but rather on how you are going to handle it.
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